About Us

To paraphrase the poet Robert Burns, ‘it is a gift to see ourselves as others see us.'

Not just feedback in the general sense of – "great job." Praise is "nice to have" but is not sufficient. You need feedback that addresses your interests - it must be specific, timely, and delivered in a way that helps you to see yourself as others see you.

Our system has the strength of face-to-face interviews without being time intensive, logistically daunting, or needlessly expensive.

The systems developed by HelpfulFeedback.com are customized for your organization. We will solicit narrative feedback that matters and provide reports that are easy to understand. Knowing that you scored an average of 3.42 on "giving assignments" or on your "ability to maintain eye contact during the presentation," is of limited value. We want to provide you with specific examples from the experience of the audience or your employees.

HelpfulFeedback.com specializes in developing unique – web based - secure – customized feedback systems. We can be most helpful when the feedback demands the highest sensitivity and diplomacy.

Owner-Developer: Jeffrey C. Connor, Ph.D.
Jef provides organizational and personal career/performance assessment and consultation for senior executives in government and business and for leaders in professional service organizations. He has designed and taught in executive education programs on leadership, organizational change, leadership transitions, stress, decision making, and accountability. He has consulted on senior executive selection and has provided in-depth assessments and executive consultation for individuals struggling with her or his role as a leader.

Jef formed IntelLeadership, LLC through which he provides senior leadership development and consultation for the intelligence community of the U.S. government. For over twenty years he was a Lecturer on Organizational Behavior at the Harvard Medical School where he has co-facilitated a seminar on leadership for chief residents in psychiatry.

For twenty years Jef was the CEO of a large professional service organization providing specialty psychiatric services. He has previously been on the faculty of the Graduate School of Education at Harvard University where he co-taught the Organizational Diagnosis seminar with Professor Harry Levinson. For twelve years, Jef was an associate of The Levinson Institute, Boston, Massachusetts.

Jef has published papers and case studies on organizational successes and failures, upward feedback, stress, mentors, dealing with difficult personalities, teams, and on breaking bad news and managing terminations. He wrote, It wasn’t about race. Or was it?,  relating to the interface of race and gender that was published in the Harvard Business Review and a case study (with Harvard Business School professor Scott Snook) on a death at Boston’s Children’s Hospital published by Harvard Business School. He also co-wrote (also with Scott Snook) “The Price of Progress: Structurally Induced Inaction” published in Organization at the Limit (2005), analyzing organizational issues related to the Columbia Shuttle disaster. He recently completed “Operación Jaque,” a case study on the July 2008 hostage rescue in Colombia.

Jef received a master's degree in psychology from Boston College, and a Ph.D. in administration, policy and research at Brandeis University. He has completed advanced training in negotiation and in mediation at the Harvard Law School.

Dr. Connor's publications, teaching materials, and interviews include:

Air Bridge Denial Program (A) – The Peruvian Missionary Plane Shootdown.

Air Bridge Denial Program (B) – Leadership in Crisis.

Air Bridge Denial Program – Epilogue

CIA Lessons Learned Case Study. CIAU Leadership Academy, 2010.

Children’s Hospital Boston (A), with Scott A. Snook, Harvard Business School Press - Case N9-411-041. December 2010.  Case “B” and “C” currently in development. 

Operación Jaque - The Colombian Hostage Rescue.  Intelligence Community Case Study, 2008.  

The Team is Tanking. Intelligence Community Case Study, 2007.

 It’s about the feedback, Law Practice Today, ABA, April 2009. 

Leadership After The Layoffs, Law Practice Today, ABA, January 2009.

The Price of Progress: Structurally Induced Inaction, (2005) with Scott A. Snook. Chapter in Organization at the Limit: NASA and the Columbia Disaster. Blackwell.

Partner Evaluations: "Upward Feedback", Law Practice Management, ABA, October, 2003. (EDGE-American Bar Association award as best management paper in 2003).

The Stress Excuse, New York Law Journal, November 2002

Protégé ISO Mentor. Legal Times, September 30, 2002

It wasn’t about race. Or was it? Harvard Business Review, September-October 2000

Disarming Terminated Employees, HR Magazine, January 2000

The Paranoid Personality at Work, HR Magazine, March 1999.

How to Break Bad News, Leadership and Management Directions, Spring, 1996.

Bearding The Lion That Roared. Levinson, Harry; Sabbath, Joseph; and Connor, Jeffrey; Consulting Psychology Journal, Fall, 1992.

Managing Passive Aggressive People, HR Magazine, November, 1991

Preoccupied With Ailing Parents: When Your Subordinate Is Too Worried To Work. (with John Elder) The Levinson Letter, 1988.

Interview: Tread Carefully When Terminating Employees. Pamela M. Prah, The Kiplinger Washington Editors, April 10, 2000.

Interview: Defuse your enemies before the job explodes. Elizabeth Leech, Chicago Tribune, June 14, 1992.

Interview: The Thrill of Insubordination. Thomas Claven, Working Woman, September 1991.

Interview: Discreetly Evaluating The Boss. Boston Sunday Globe, October 7, 1990

Quote Our firm has worked with Jef since 1994 on a number of management issues. He helped us design our program for obtaining associate evaluations of partners, and he has helped us to present the results of those evaluations to partners in a thoughtful and constructive way. He is perceptive, familiar with the law firm environment, and has credibility with both partners and associates that very few law firm consultants do. I value his counsel, and I recommend him regularly to other law firms.

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